You can’t say enough about a subject no one wants to talk about. As someone brought up in an African American community and by a grandmother, I can vouch for the psychological hazards of a household without a father. Further, I can point to numerous scenarios of impending doom where family values are non-existent.
How Broken Families Break the Bank
Liz | 08/17 at 09:27 AM
Governor Rick Perry has jumped into the race to become the GOP presidential candidate in 2012 and is leading in some of the polls. His entry doubtless alarms those who start to twitch when the conversation turns to “family values,” with good reason. Mr. Perry’s website proclaims that he believes “in the sanctity of marriage between a man and a woman, regarding it as the linchpin of the family unit and, thus, society as a whole.”
To supporters of gay marriage, such statements are provocative and controversial. Yet a growing number of policymakers and analysts are concluding that supporting traditional families may play an important role in plugging our country’s fiscal drain. Numerous studies from groups leaning left and right suggest that increasing numbers of children born out of wedlock, high divorce rates and looser family structures are contributing to rising poverty rates, especially among minorities and the under-educated. The result: an even greater drain on government resources.
Governor Perry, whose Christian faith influences his policy-making, may bring this debate into the open. As the nation struggles financially, nearly every possible avenue to reducing government spending is being considered. Bolstering the family – an approach some say could powerfully improve the country’s fortunes – has yet to receive much attention.
The 2010 Census reported that for the first time in our history, married couples make up less than half of all households. The traditional family with a mom, dad and children now constitute less than 20 percent of American households, down from 43 percent in 1950.
At the same time, the number of children born out of wedlock has exploded. In the mid-1960s, only 6 percent of children were born to unmarried parents. Some 40 percent of all children are born to unmarried parents today; in the African American community, the figure is above 70 percent and for Hispanics, the total is 50 percent.
According to the Heritage Institute, 2008 Census data indicates the poverty rate for single parents with children was 36.5 percent compared to 6.4 percent for married couples. They conclude, “Being raised in a married family reduced a child’s probability of living in poverty by about 80 percent.”
According to a study released last fall by the Brookings Institute, the rise in children born out of wedlock is “assuring the persistence of poverty, wasting human potential, and raising government spending.” In its Strengthening Fragile Families study of single-parent households, the Brookings researchers wrote that “the most important conclusion … is that these families play a central role in boosting the nation’s poverty rate and that they and their children contribute disproportionately to many other serious social problems.”
Further complicating debate on these matters is the growing schism between income levels and family structure. College-educated young people, many of whom live together before marrying, typically do tie the knot before having children. Divorce rates in this crowd have declined. It is among those without college degrees that single parenting is on the rise. Wilcox and Griswold, authors of another Brookings study, describe the “deepening marginalization of marriage and the growing instability of family life among moderately educated Americans,” whom they define as those with only a high school diploma. They point out that what was once a problem primarily for poor populations is in fact spreading to working-class neighborhoods.
Should the country be alarmed by these trends? According to Benjamin Scafidi, an economist at Georgia State’s Bunting School of Business, fractured families, divorce and unwed childbearing cost taxpayers at the least $112 billion per year, some $70 billion is in federal outlays, the balance borne at the state and federal level. His work is based on evidence that single-parent households tend to have a higher propensity towards poverty, which boosts spending for food stamps and Medicaid, for instance. He also concludes that young people raised by single parents are more likely to get into trouble, more often developing drug problems or ending up in jail.
What can be done to turn around the waning of traditional family structures? Chuck Stetson, a board member of the Institute for Family Values who helped to fund the Scafidi report, is pushing divorce reform state by state. He describes himself as an independent voter who can read the writing on the wall. “We have to get left and right together,” he says. “You’re never going to balance the budget if you don’t understand the social issues.” Stetson is driven by numbers; he has plenty of convincing statistics. “Boys growing up without a dad are twice as likely to end up in jail. About 5 percent of teenage girls get pregnant when they live with their father; if the father leaves before they’re six years old, they have a 35 percent chance of becoming pregnant,” he argues.
What more can be done? The good news from Scafidi is that his work, done in 2008, indicates that even small improvements in marriage success can yield significant dividends. He cites a marriage education program initiated under Governor Perry that attempted to improve household stability. He concludes that the program could easily pay for itself by boosting traditional family structures.
Unhappily, embracing “family values” has become a lightening rod for debate on touchy issues such as gay marriage, abortion and the separation of church and state. Stetson is right: Those on both sides of the aisle should welcome attempts to reduce divorce and encourage marriage, based on conclusive evidence that family support networks are a boon to children and to society – and even to taxpayers.
Comments
I have some good ideas for turning around what Liz rightly calls the “waning of traditional family structures”.
And these are ones that any conservative with his head on straight should support.
It’s true: Poor people are killing us. They’re the reason our country isn’t doing better. They’re lazy and they bleed those of us who produce. And they brought it ALL upon themselves. I’m tired of not getting to keep all of my money because of these scummy leaches.
If we really want to get rid of poor people, we HAVE to take away the things that keep them poor.
This is what I propose:
- An immediate end to Medicaid and all other federal, state and local government health care programs.
- The end of “Temporary Assistance for Needy Families” (TANF) It’s time to let people become independent and free.
- The end of the current school financing structure. Why should those of us who work and produce have to pay for the children of the indolent and irresponsible. I advocate a complete end to the Public School system to be replaced by Freedom of Choice in education: If you can afford to pay for school, then and only then, should your kids get to go. If not, that’s not my problem. Too many lazy people are sending their kids to school on MY DIME!!! And I’m fed up with it. Besides, a lot of these kids won’t amount to anything anyway. Why waste time “teaching” them? Just look at their loser parents.
- Eliminate housing subsidies. Only those who can afford the market rate for housing should receive it. Move in with friends or family, or in a church basement. But STAY OUT of my wallet!!!
- Get rid of government student loans or government-backed student loans. Let every kid “sink or swim” if their parents haven’t saved any money for college.
- The end of ANYTHING that’s “free” in our system. No more free roads, no more free TV signals, no more free libraries, no more free schools, or free cops, or free fire departments, or free ambulances, or free food at soup kitchens, etc.
If we REALLY care about the poor and want to help them, we HAVE to motivate them! And all of the above will motivate much more effectively than some disgusting, fraudulent liberal do-gooder nonsense.
Being “kind” or “compassionate” with poor people DOES NOT WORK!!! (When will the liberals get it?!?!?) We’ve wasted trillions since the sixties on this made up “crisis” called “poverty”, and it never worked. In fact, it just made things much worse. And people like me ended up paying for it!
So, the time has come; let’s seize the momentum we currently have with this new Congress and force Obama and his socialist supporters to crawling before us.
Cut off all dollars to the “poor” and watch “poverty” disappear forever!!!
Thank you, Liz, for your excellent, beautiful, conservative columns. People like you speak for me!!!
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